Mind The Gap: Authoritarian Parenting.

This story is heartbreaking and shows the dangers of authoritarian parenting [we are not pointing fingers]. There is a thin line between ‘Strict’ or ‘firm’ parenting and ‘authoritarian’ parenting, which we should be mindful about. Authoritarian parenting is the main default in many African countries. Most safeguarding issues arise from this. How do we shift from our own upbringing experience and background to a more supportive parenting style without losing our parental authority or cultural values?

Excerpt from this article:

Experts believe her [Mrs Frankie] success reflects a modern anxiety among parents that can lead them to seek out radical and harmful solutions.

For parents who feel lost and desperate, particularly when it's dealing with problematic behavior, extreme techniques become appealing, particularly if they see results," parenting psychologist Dr Maryhan Baker told the BBC.”

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A time may come when our kids push boundaries, tests our patience, challenge our personalities and values in life. Some kids may exhibit challenging behaviors and defiance. There are strategies to deal with this phase of parenting. Ask questions, seek help. You are not alone. 💜